Book Reveals Joe DiMaggio’s Emotional Turmoil Following Marilyn Monroe’s Passing

The deep affection that Joe DiMaggio held for the actress Marilyn Monroe is widely recognized, but a recent biography penned by one of the esteemed Yankee player's close associates delves into their legendary love story in greater detail.

This new book sheds light on the aspects of her character that captured his heart, the reasons behind their separation, and who he held accountable for her tragic demise.

In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, Dr. Rock Positano shares insights from his book, “Dinner with DiMaggio: Memories of an American Hero,” which he co-wrote with his brother, John Positano.

According to Dr. Positano, Joe felt immensely honored to have Marilyn as his wife, leading him to fiercely shield her from harm.

He perceived her as a delicate and kind-hearted individual, susceptible to exploitation by others.

The biography, unveiled this week, reveals details gleaned over a decade of friendship between Dr. Positano and the veteran centerfielder, who was significantly older.

Their bond blossomed after Dr. Positano assisted DiMaggio with an old heel injury, with many profound discussions taking place in various New York City eateries.

During one intimate conversation, DiMaggio expressed his profound admiration for the physical intimacy he shared with Monroe.

Despite their brief nine-month marriage in 1954, both divorcees found a powerful connection in each other's company.

DiMaggio cherished Monroe not only for her physical allure but also for her intellect, which he held in high regard.

The book portrays DiMaggio, a multifaceted and astute individual, as a connoisseur of films who deeply respected Monroe's acting prowess.

Monroe, captivated by DiMaggio's compassionate nature, was drawn to his caring demeanor.

Dr. Positano describes their love as characterized by DiMaggio's chivalrous disposition, a trait that continues to appeal to American women even today.

Despite the depth of their affection, societal disapproval loomed over their relationship.

The book recounts a confrontation between DiMaggio and Archbishop Fulton Sheen, where the Archbishop admonished DiMaggio for marrying Monroe, citing her alleged lack of moral values.

While defending his marriage to Monroe, DiMaggio voiced concerns about her personal hygiene habits and her inability to bear children, which he deemed essential for their union to thrive.

The desire for a family of their own caused strain on their relationship, as Monroe's cited reason for the split was “mental cruelty.”

DiMaggio's strained relationship with his son from a previous marriage did not deter his longing for familial ties.

Despite Monroe's subsequent marriage to Arthur Miller, she sought solace in DiMaggio post-divorce.

However, their rekindling was hindered by DiMaggio's reluctance, though he continued to care deeply for Monroe.

Monroe's battle with substance abuse and mental health issues culminated in her untimely death in 1962, raising questions about the circumstances surrounding her passing and her rumored entanglements with the Kennedy family.

DiMaggio attributed Sinatra for introducing Monroe to the Kennedys, whom he believed were detrimental influences on her well-being.

Dr. Positano clarified DiMaggio's sentiments, underscoring his belief that Monroe's association with Sinatra and the Kennedys had negative repercussions on her psychological and emotional state.

DiMaggio expressed regret and self-blame for the tragic outcome, acknowledging that his efforts to protect Monroe were insufficient.

In his final moments, DiMaggio reflected on Sinatra's assertion that Monroe's love endured despite the turmoil, encapsulating the enduring impact of their complicated relationship.