John Mayer Opens Up About His Love Life, Acknowledges Rejections

Renowned musician John Mayer, known for his past relationships with high-profile celebrities, shared some candid insights into his romantic life during a recent episode of his Instagram Live show, Current Mood.

The Grammy winner revealed that despite his previous reputation as a ladies' man, he now encounters more rejections than acceptances in the dating world.

During the discussion hosted by Cazzie David, daughter of Larry David, Mayer disclosed that his romantic appeal has waned since he first gained fame with his debut album, Room for Squares, in 2001.

He humorously remarked on how he has become less desirable to potential partners over the years, joking that he has become “PR poison” for people seeking romance.

Reflecting on his changing experiences, the 41-year-old artist acknowledged the shift in perceptions about him, stating that being a famous man parallels the challenges faced by beautiful women in terms of finding genuine connections.

Mayer expressed that as he matures, he feels less inclined to engage in superficial encounters and values meaningful connections over casual affairs.

Despite the shift in dynamics, the singer of hits like “New Light” has embraced this new phase in his love life.

He emphasized that facing rejection has brought a sense of realism into his interactions, contrasting his earlier years when he enjoyed unwavering attention from admirers.

Mayer admitted to learning from this evolution, recognizing the importance of authentic connections over fleeting encounters.

Mayer recounted a pivotal moment at an Oscar party where he realized the significance of accepting rejection gracefully.

Recalling an encounter with Scarlett Johansson, he described how he found liberation in acknowledging that not everyone may reciprocate interest in him.

This realization prompted him to adopt a more respectful and restrained approach to social interactions, understanding that mutual attraction is not guaranteed.

The musician also shared a humorous anecdote about offering his number to a woman who candidly expressed doubt about using it.

Rather than feeling rejected, Mayer viewed the situation positively, appreciating the honesty and avoiding potential misunderstandings.

He noted the growth in his attitude towards such interactions, indicating a shift towards valuing transparency and mutual interest in forming connections.

In a lighthearted exchange with David, Mayer playfully responded to queries about his romantic history, revealing that he had been intimate with fewer than 500 individuals.

Despite initial surprise at this revelation, he maintained a self-aware and honest demeanor, emphasizing the importance of genuine connections over mere numbers in his past relationships.

Addressing his music's influence on his personal life, Mayer acknowledged using his songs to connect with others romantically, particularly during his younger years.

While he admitted to leveraging his music as a conversation starter, he emphasized that his intentions were always sincere and heartfelt, even if they occasionally served as an icebreaker in social settings.

Reflecting on his iconic song “Your Body Is a Wonderland,” Mayer shared mixed feelings about its enduring popularity and the public's association with it.

He humorously acknowledged the challenges of being recognized for a song from his early career, noting how fans' reactions to the track have evolved over time.

Despite the song's legacy, Mayer expressed a sense of amusement and acceptance towards its continued relevance in popular culture.

Fans can catch John Mayer's Current Mood show live on Instagram every Sunday at 11 p.m. EST, where the musician engages in candid conversations and shares personal anecdotes with his audience.